If you know that Jehovah's Witnesses have the truth, why not let yourself be wronged and keep on serving Jehovah?
I don't know where you got this idea from. I don't know that they have the truth. In fact, I know the opposite to be true.
Visit a Kingdom Hall outside of yours, maybe one that is outside of your own circuit. Take the temperature there. Get a reading.
I was a JW for many years- from birth, until my early thirties. I visited many Kingdom Halls, in differen't circuits, in differen't places in the US. While I noticed a few subtle differences, mostly cultural, they were all exactly the same with regards to how much control the elders had over the rest of the congregation.
Maybe you will discover that you have been wrong in painting every one of the elders with the same brush
I haven't painted anyone, with any brush. You obviously missed my point. I don't believe that all elders are corrupt. In fact, I will concede that the majority of the ones that I dealt with personally were good men, doing thankless jobs.
But whether an elder is good or bad, right or wrong, the congregation is at their mercy, subject to their whims. This is the power that has been granted them by the FDS. If an elder decides that something is a rule, such as the way disfellowshipped ones should be treated, then it is a rule.
And for the record, you are being rather disingenuous in implying that it is only a handful of elders who take such a hardline stance with regards to the disfellowshipped. It is far more than that. It is the majority. You know it as well as I do.
I think you should hold your ground and write a letter about the matter to the branch, but what do I know?
LOL. Yeah, I should do that.
You are delusional if you believe the branch would ever side with a rank-and-file JW over a body of elders, or even just one elder. Their concern is with organizational unity, nothing more. Certainly not the rights or feelings of an individual.
At best they would tell you to "wait on Jehovah". Putting the onus squarely on the wronged, and their seeming lack of faith, is far easier than acknowledging that many of the men they select to take the lead are incompetent, or power-hungry jackasses, who, despite what the WT itself says, are neither appointed, nor guided, by holy spirit.